Doug Gray, PhD PCC, is an expert Family Wealth Advisor, leadership consultant, champion for Next Gen leaders, and teacher.
Yes, this headshot was AI-generated because his family said he needed to show his grey hair…
Consulting Experience
Doug helps business leaders accelerate their succession planning and legacy goals, with less conflict or confusion.
He says, “We are all concerned about our wealth. We are all in transition. We all struggle with decision making. We all seek advice.”
Doug focuses on the “People Side” of family wealth because his clients deserve both the art of expertise and the science of data. He typically collaborates with multidisciplinary teams of advisors who add financial, legal, and insurance expertise.
In 2024 he developed an AI-assisted performance feedback communication coaching solution at www.JITCoach.com that enables leaders to practice communication skills and reduce conflict or anxiety.
What about you and your loved ones? What do you need next?
Doug knows that leaders need to practice leadership, just as physicians practice medicine and attorneys practice law. Leaders need artful consulting. We need to Practice Leadership. So, where do you start?
He and his teams have a track record of 100% client satisfaction and guaranteed results since 1997 with thousands of clients in multiple business sectors (e.g., manufacturing, finance, retail, technology, pharmaceuticals, healthcare, insurance, investments).
Many are family-owned business leaders, owners and managers.
Doug provides expertise to business leaders during their transitions. Specifically, he assesses individual and team strengths and gaps and recommend behaviors that enable leaders to avoid pain, and to flourish. See his 360 assessment at www.AssessNextGen.com
Why focus on family wealth advising? Doug says, “My parents and family have been critical to all of my success, and to my nuclear family, and families are the lifeblood of positive social change. In every corner of the world. And in every business sector. What could be a more critical focus?”
His recent leadership consulting work has led to: 1) the 360-assessment consulting process described at www.AssessNextGen.com for license and leaders, 2) the customized content and digital solutions described at Family-Wealth-Network.com, 3) his recent books “Legacy Locked” (2025) and “The Success Playbook for Next Gen Family Business Leaders” (2024) (see the list below), and 4) a hybrid coaching solution at www.JITCoach.com that uses both customized AI and expert performance coaches to help leaders develop essential communication skills.
Doug would love the opportunity to learn more about you, your family, your business, your vision, and your challenges. Please schedule a mutually convenient time using this link: https://calendly.com/doug-gray/intro-call
He would say, “Here’s to you, At Your Best.” I help business leaders accelerate their succession planning and legacy goals, with less conflict or confusion. We are all concerned about our wealth. We are all in transition. We all struggle with decision making. We all seek advice. I focus on the “People Side” of family wealth because my clients deserve both the art of expertise and the science of data. I typically collaborate with multidisciplinary teams of advisors who add financial, legal, and insurance expertise. Recently, we have developed an AI-assisted performance feedback communication coaching solution at JITCoach.com that enables leaders to practice communication skills and reduce conflict or anxiety. What about you and your loved ones? What do you need next? We know that leaders need to practice leadership, just as physicians practice medicine and attorneys practice law. Leaders need artful consulting. So, where do you start? We have a track record of 100% client satisfaction and guaranteed results since 1997 with thousands of clients in multiple business sectors (e.g., manufacturing, finance, retail, technology, pharmaceuticals, healthcare, insurance, investments). Many are family-owned business leaders, owners and managers. We provide expertise to business leaders during their transitions. Specifically, we assess individual and team strengths and gaps and recommend behaviors that enable leaders to avoid pain, and to flourish. Why? My parents and family have been critical to all of my success, and to my nuclear family, and families are the lifeblood of positive social change. In every corner of the world. And in every business sector. My recent leadership consulting work has led to: 1) the 360-assessment consulting process described at AssessNextGen.com, 2) the customized content and digital solutions described at Family-Wealth-Network.com, 3) my recent books “Legacy Locked” (2025) and “The Success Playbook for Next Gen Family Business Leaders” (2024), and 4) a hybrid coaching solution at JITCoach.com that uses both customized AI and expert performance coaches to help leaders develop essential communication skills. I would love the opportunity to learn more about you, your family, your business, your vision, and your challenges. Please schedule a mutually convenient time using this link: https://calendly.com/doug-gray/intro-call Here’s to you “At Your Best,” Doug Gray
Top skillsTop skills
360 Assessments • Strategic Consulting • Conflict Management • Family wealth • Leadership Development360 Assessments • Strategic Consulting • Conflict Managment • Family wealth • Leadership Development
Business Consulting • Management Consulting • Change Management • Executive Coaching • Leadership Development • Training • Team Building
A representative list of leadership coaching engagements include:
CFO and 20 leaders in finance and accounting, Fortune 500 energy construction company, who needed to embrace a redesign without losing productivity
team of EVPs tasked with redesigning the IT needs of their F100 healthcare company
MD struggling with burnout who needed confidential consulting (e.g. anonymity from his employer and insurer)
CEO in a technology company recently promoted to replace the founder
President and 18 members of executive leadership team, Fortune 500 energy construction company, who needed to demonstrate alignment within 6 months
SVP and site managers at a nuclear power construction site who needed to increase alignment with business partners and avoid negative media
SVP in functional but de-centralized group who needed to assimilate 20 leaders, using action learning methodology in direct meetings, coaching, and SharePoint to drive accountability
Small business owner of a franchise who needed to fire an employee after 11 years of good service
SVP, global bank, who needed to reorganize a division
VP, global bank, seeking career opportunities
newly hired VP who needed to develop radical transformation of a functional group that required external coaching and team building leadership training using a customized app
Newly promoted director who lacked interpersonal skills to manage 33 people
Founder of an IT company who was not able to develop new business
Business/Organizational Leadership Experience
Doug has been a successful business owner since 1997; he knows the challenges and “what works.” He co-developed the Leadership Development Institute at the University of Maryland, College Park and taught there for 7 years, and he is a former adjunct faculty member at several colleges including NC State University. He directed a non-profit agency in Washington, D.C. for 9 years and grew it 900% while managing 120 people. As a former world-class athlete, Doug knows that the rigor of change requires regular support from experienced consultants, plus a dash of humor.
Education and Training
Doug’s graduate research at Dartmouth College included development of an assessment to determine risk tolerance and risk aversion. That theme of mitigating risk in business and leadership has prevailed in his continued learning from clients and colleagues in the safety, consulting, executive assessment, and leadership development industries. He is certified in the Hogan suite, DISC, Positive Psychology, several 360’s, several EI assessments, and 5 coaching certification programs. Since 2000, Doug has been a Professional Certified Coach (PCC) with the International Coaching Federation.
A perpetual learner, in his 50’s he earned a PhD in Organizational Leadership from the Chicago School of Professional Psychology. His research interests include the effect of positive psychology on business leaders, managers, and executive coaches. His dissertation title is “Positive Psychology Coaching Protocols: Creating Competitive Advantage for Leader Development (2018).
Publications and Appearances
Doug loves to share his expertise as a speaker, facilitator and a writer. As a keynote speaker, he has addressed annual meetings, executive retreats, and nonprofit leaders. As a facilitator, he has partnered with clients to design experientially memorable leadership training solutions that range from boot camps to strategic off-sites to contests using customized mobile apps. As an author, he has frequently been published in journals ranging from Family Firm Institutes’ Practitioner, Family Business.org, to the American Society of Safety Engineer’s Professional Safety to Financial Advisor to dozens of webinars and hundreds of guest blogs. There are 200+ videos of his content on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/@NextGenerationLeaders
He is a published author of articles on leadership development, AI, family business leadership, succession planning, physician burnout, healthcare, analytics, safety and productivity. Doug has published multiple books:
Legacy Locked (2025). See www.Legacy-Locked.com
The Success Playbook for Next Gen Family Business Leaders (2024)
Objectives and Key Results (OKR) Leadership; How to Apply Silicon Valley’s Secret Sauce to your Career, Team or Organization (2019). See www.OKRLeadership.com
Passionate Action; 5 Steps to Creating Extraordinary Success in Life and Work (2007)
Adventure Coaching; A Guidebook for Action-Based Success in Life and Work (2006)
Doug will not waste any of your time or resources. He expects you to achieve great results. And he always guarantees exceptional value.
Call him now at 704.995.6647 or contact us here or at https://calendly.com/doug-gray/intro-call
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I have recently developed this 3-part formula for success. Let me know what you think.
Draw an equilateral triangle. Label each corner “Action”, “Learning”, and “Service.” Place a dot in the center.
1. Actions define successful businesses. Founders and anyone cited in a history book have one trait in common: an obsessive focus on action. Score yourself 1 (low) to 10 (high) on the question “How action oriented am I?” If you are unsure, focus on actual results, rather than intentions.
2. Learning leads to failure, and failures lead to success. I track “Learnings” in digital folders and update them regularly. I regularly attend conferences and take on projects so that I can fail, faster. Yesterday I had lunch with a consultant who repeated the same points I heard him make 12 months ago. He is not learning much. I cut the lunch short and moved on. Score yourself 1 (low) to 10 (high) on the question, “How much am I learning?” Learning is a messy process. If you are not tracking your learning, you are probably repeating ineffective old patterns.
3. Service is a measure of your relationship with others. Humans are social animals. We yearn for relationships. We exist to serve others- clients, loved ones, communities, goals… The most impact-ful businesses track user engagement. The best nonprofits, like Rotary, reward service above self. Score yourself 1 (low) to 10 (high) on the question, “How well am I serving others?” If you are unsure, ask your clients or loved ones. Or solicit more clients.
Now place your scores on the triangle you created. Use the dot to represent 1 (low) and let the corners represent 10 (high.)
What do you notice when you study your self-assessment triangle?
Where do you need to invest energy and resources?
Who can help you develop ?
You may know that action learning is a methodology, using cross functional teams of 4-8 people to solve a key problem. They are tasked with breakthrough, and with a short deadline such as 6 months. They require executive sponsorship and some resources. But the action learning process is a small investment with proven ROI.
In Europe and Australia, the Action Learning methodology is thriving. In the U.S. there is less adoption. One reason for that lagging adoption may be the fact that the business environment does not encourage accountability between cross functional teams. Yet.
We provide individual and team accountability.
How are you planning to share this Action + Learning + Service = Success Formula with others?
I do not know the answer for you. Yet. And it would be presumptuous or disingenuous if I offered a trite response.
Instead I will give you some facts. Then the process. Then what I do know.
Many studies confirm that your cost of good sold (COGS) is 7x higher for a new customer than for a returning customer. So you should focus on providing new value to old customers.
There is a former client who comes to mind. He happened to be a 30 year old financial advisor. But the story is relevant for most of us in specialized fields. He wanted to grow his business. After 3 years he had exhausted leads from his friends and family. He had networked so often that people avoided him at chamber and business development groups and even at Rotary meetings. I asked him, “What kinds of clients do you want to serve?” and “Who is likely to retire in 10 years with a strong book of business that needs to sell the bottom portion to a younger professional like yourself?” and “How can you guarantee that you provide excellent service to that older partner or lead source?” As you can imagine, he had a new partner and provided tremendous value for that person’s clients for many years. However, his answer is not your answer.
I do know the answer for hundreds of other business leaders who are former clients. Since 1997 I have consulted and coached business leaders in manufacturing, health care, education, HR, safety, technology, finance and accounting. I have guaranteed results for clients ranging from executive teams at F500 companies to small business owners struggling to make ends meet. I can provide best-of-class solutions or referrals to other consultants who can likely help you solve your problems.
I do know the process. I do know what works.
Here you go: you need to 1) define the problems, 2) provide solutions, 3) model accountability. I call this the “3A Coaching process.“
These “A letter” words are Assessments, Constructive Actions, and Accountability. Too many “coaches” stop after providing assessments, or constructive actions, because they do not know how to provide individual or team accountability. That’s about as smart as running 2/3 of a marathon and stopping. Make sure that you hire a coach who will get you past your finish line goals.
You are probably struggling with the following challenges:
people challenges strategy challenges execution challenges cash and financial challenges
Typically, I define the problems using organizational and individual assessments. I determine where you are making money. And where you are losing money.
I may ask the three big questions: 1. can you define the problem? 2. do you need to solve that problem? 3. who can solve that problem? In today’s market, the buyer-seller dance has evolved into a transparent process of answering those 3 questions. Then adopting the best solution. Vendors are secondary.
Then I provide a host of best-in-class solutions for you to sell more to your existing customers. They already know you. They are inclined to purchase more products and services.
Then I model accountability so that you move beyond good intentions. I want you to sell more services.
Throughout my career I have always done one thing: leadership development.
And my career has catapulted at many times… Specifically, whenever I partner with smart people doing great work.
In 2012 I partnered with Adam Ortiz, PsyD, Chris Leupold, PhD, and the team to provide predictive talent assessments for a large global F100 company.
These multi-rater, multi-method assessments are described below. The process is the most effective, valid talent assessment I have experienced to date. Please call me at 704.895.6479 to learn how we can provide this assessment for your senior leaders.
Executive Development Consulting
Who We Are
As a premier provider of executive assessment and coaching services, we excel at understanding our clients’ situations and helping them drive business results. EDC employs experts who are Ph.D.-level Organizational Psychologists, and possess more than 15 years of consulting and corporate experience working with C-suite and senior-level executives. Our depth of experience in working with companies of all sizes, and across the globe, is a key differentiator, and rather than relying on abstract concepts, EDC integrates proven methods for assessment and development. We design these methods to work within the parameters of your environment and can be tailored quickly and cost effectively. Our solutions equip individuals and organizations with the tools they need to achieve their goals.
Our Approach
Understanding what is required to excel is critical to individual and organizational advancement. We systematically define success in each client’s organization by asking questions that hone in on core competencies and underlying behaviors. We then use in-depth, behavioral interviews, 360-degree assessment, and psychological inventories to objectively assess those competencies and behaviors. Our goal is to provide a clear, accurate and relevant picture of your talent and where to most meaningfully invest your resources.
How We Add Value
We help our clients identify and develop their number one resource, their people. We do this by partnering to define the competencies critical to success, measuring them and developing the organization’s leaders with those competencies as the focal point. We equip individuals and organizations with the tools they need to turn executive assessment and development into sustainable advantage. Our practices are proven to achieve and sustain higher levels of leadership effectiveness, and are based on best practice research of leadership development strategies.
Our Philosophy
Our philosophy on development and coaching is that people grow by applying learnings to real world situations. EDC directly links executive development to individual and organizational needs by addressing values, motivations and behaviors in ways that support the achievement of development targets. Our approach links self-awareness with business results.
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